Not so serious dating
Right is by doing things and going places that you’d do or go to anyway, even if there was no chance of meeting a man.
So, if you find yourself on Saturday nights obsessing over and constantly tweaking every word on your online dating profile, then you’re wasting valuable time that you could be spending pursuing your own interests.
” Well, I’m certainly not arguing that you want a real relationship.
These problems should be left to the trained professionals. Otherwise, you’ll either attract a partner that has the savior complex (see above) or you’ll attract a partner with the same issues. I realize that in order to meet men you need to get out there and be sociable, whether “out there” means the local ski club or the local web scene and I’m all for that. But if you’re not actively pursuing your own interests at the same time, then there’s a problem.
After all, you’ve both spent a lot of time, money, and energy to travel some distance to meet. Moreover, don’t let that great build-up of excitement convince you to hop into bed together either. Don’t spill your guts about your ex or your loneliness, and avoid jumping into bed with someone just because he or she is there.
If you do, you may very well break up shortly after the weekend, and one or both of you could get hurt. Spend time with friends rather than someone too tempting to resist. An adult might profess to be in love when he or she desperately wants to love and be loved.
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