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He asked could he move in, I was still skeptical but I said ok.
Unfortunately I had unprotected sex with him and even after that we were still cool. I figured he probably does this all the time and I just fell for the scam. Look, I think people need to know (sorry for the caps, but) THINGS AREN’T DEFINABLE.
But i stop them from becoming full blown by reminding myself that if his reason for disappearing is because of his unwillingness to support me when i’m going through a stressful time, do i really want that kind of relationship?
I truly value my happiness and value as an individual.
Sometimes I didn’t realise men were interested in me and I ghosted them unintentionally when it turned out they were interested, so, I have done the ghosting myself. He began to slither away, but we would always get back together. So, I am making the effort to work on myself, mentally I feel great.
He responded a day after thanking me for the simple gift I gave him. Then yesterday, I shoot him a message on facebook asking for a certain schedule of an event.
So think about the people you’ve ghosted and left in your trail of emotional destruction!! I just think you can’t expect too much from people, especially those you have just met, hooked up with a few weeks ago or have known even for a few months. I’ve known a couple of old people who were married for fifty years and they would look at each other and still wonder ‘Who the hell is this person? And it’s not always about the other person and what they’ve done to you. Well, my little ghost and I were ‘perfect’ the first 3 months of our 6 month relationship. his tone towards me was that since he has 3 kids, me being ill, I would be “just one more person to take care of. I am exercising more and getting fresh air, therefore am losing weight and ready to take on the world again.
’ People are complex, we have our sets of issues and our own lives and we can’t compare ourselves to others who appear to have perfect relationships when behind closed doors they are probably dealing with shit we don’t know about. We had a lot going on: First of all, we were LDR (the worst! I am working harder because I don’t have the constant worry on ‘is this going to be the day that he dumps me?
OK, so now that we know why, let’s talk about what to do to help you move on to greener pastures. Girls will come up with all kinds of deluded reasons why they absolutely must initiate contact.
He stopped initiating contact with you because he is no longer interested in you.